“The psychological immune system works best when we are totally stuck, when we are trapped. This is the difference between dating and marriage, right? I mean you go out on a date with a guy, and he picks his nose; you don’t go out on another date. You’re married to a guy and he picks his nose? Yeah, he has a heart of gold; “Don’t touch the fruitcake.” Right? You find a way to be happy with what’s happened.”
—Dan Gilbert